Sunday, December 30, 2007

Home for the Holidays

When I went home for the holidays, I got to see family and friends - both old friends and new friends.

One of my friends, Tracy Wells emailed me an invitation to her Christmas Party. Tracy and I have been friends since the 9th grade. Some of our other friends from high school were at the party too. Its scary and fun, because these girls have known me since "back in the day". It was so nice to see them. All of them have careers, are married and have children of their own. Tracy inherited step children when she married 10 years ago and she's a grandma!



From left to right: Tracy Wells, Me, Dawn Roth-Kulpanowski and Julie Sandefur-Bird.

Monday, December 24, 2007

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas!

I'm in Michigan for the holiday season.

I drove from NYC to Detroit. It took me 10 hours. It was a very nice drive across I-80, through New Jersey, Pennsylvania and Ohio.

I hope you all have a blessed and safe Christmas!

Monday, December 17, 2007

Gløgg Night

Last night I went to my Uncle Nil's place in Brooklyn to have some gløgg and celebrate the holidays (pronounced "glueg"). Gløgg is a Swedish holiday drink that is spicy, warm, fruity and sometimes alcoholic. We also had various foods that are typical of the Swedish festivities.

My Father's side of the family are from Malmo, Sweden (Uncle Nils is my father's younger brother). They came here in the 1950's, first living in Detroit before moving to West Bloomfield, Michigan. My father still has a strong Swedish accent. I love my Swedish heritage and find it fascinating to partake in many of the cultural gatherings forgotten in my typical americanized life. Years ago, I had the opportunity to visit Sweden and loved it. The people, places, culture and the land are so lovely and intriguing. Unfortunately, its also one of the most atheistic countries in the world.

For all you Swedes out there - God Jul!
(God Jul = Merry Christmas in Swedish)

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Christmas in NY

I really love Christmas. It's especially great in NYC.

I thought I'd share some of my own Christmas in NY pictures with you.....


Macy's at 34th Street- the land of amazing lights, front windows and shopping overdoses.


Bringing home the Christmas tree....


Santa is watching you....... from my neighbor's house...
so you better watching out! (he's like 12 feet tall!!)


Our Christmas tree at home, once we brought it in and decorated it.


We had a lot of fun getting ready for the Christmas outreach!


Here is where I want you to buy my Christmas present.....
The Broadway Panhandler
... hint hint ...


My neighborhood in the Bronx is called Throgs Neck.
They have great lights for Christmas. Its like being in a small town.


Christmas in NYC wouldn't be complete without the awesome

Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree in midtown Manhattan.

Its so beautiful!!
I play tourist when walking from the subway train to my bus stop going home.


The lights dancing on the side of Saks Fifth Avenue



Saturday, December 08, 2007

Protection from What Lurks Around the Corner

Tonight was a sobering reminder of God's protection.

We live on a main road and I won't park my vehicle on the street in front of my house - even though its perfectly legal to do so at any time.

We have been eyewitness to several accidents from out of control speeding cars in front of our house. Its sometimes very frightening to hear the screeching and banging noises of crashing cars at 3:30am.

We also live on a nearly dead end part of the road we live on. We are one of the only two houses on our block - its very quiet with the exception of the traffic.

ok ....... here's my story ...........

After going to the grocery store, I returned home and parked my car in front of my house temporarily, so I could unload my bags (my roommates are gone for the weekend).

After loading my groceries into the house, I shut the house door behind me and hopped into my car to move it safely to the street around the corner.

I didn't lock my front door, bring my purse or my cell phone with me to park my car. I never do, its only like 100 feet away.

A car pulls up in front of me. When this happens, its usually company for the neighbors or a lost driver talking on their cell phone.

I pull around him and park my car.

I get out of my car and start walking towards my house.

The man in the car gets out.

It looks suspicious. He's in my pathway to my house.

I immediately turn around and walk back into my car, jump in and lock the doors.

The man starts following me and tries to ask me a question.

I cracked the window (which I shouldn't have done) to hear what he was trying to say.

He says "Are you trying to follow me?".

I replied "No, I live right over there".

He says "Oh" and just stood there looking at me.

Well, I wasn't going to sit there and stare him down, while alone on a half dark street.

I drove away.

Mistake number two and three and four: He knows where I live now, my front door is unlocked and I have no cell phone. I'm screwed if he's one of those psycho killers we read about on www.cnn.com.

I drove off and turned down the wrong way on the one way street directly behind my house, hoping to find an empty spot and run like heck though the backyard to get help.

No empty spot.

I see my neighbor with his wife and kids. This guy is one of those hardcore Italian guys from the Bronx. Nice guy. Never smiles.

I ran over and I told him what was happening.

He said in his Bronx accent "No problem. Where is this guy?? I'll make sure ya get back ok".

(I'm sorry, but he's a rough guy. Who knew God would use him as my guardian angel.)

I got into the house safe. I called the landlord upstairs to give her a heads up.

The strange man drove away.

It was all very frightening.

We must always be on guard. Not to be paranoid, but alert and aware of your surroundings.

Not so comfortable you get caught off guard.

We must do this in every aspect of life, whether it be street smarts for personal safety or to guard our hearts from things that get us way off track from what we ought to be doing.

1 Peter 5:8 NLT
Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.



What seemed like a routine to me could have led to a very serious situation.



Sunday, December 02, 2007

God's Love and the Dentist


Yesterday, I had an unfortunate thing happen to me. One of my back teeth broke. I wasn't eating anything hard to cause it to happen. It just chipped off while eating my lunch. At first I panicked. 

First of all, I hate going to the dentist. 

Second of all, I don't have dental insurance. 

Third, I don't know any of the dentists in my area. Yikes. 

My first reaction was "oh no!" and then I prayed a quiet, scared prayer for God to help me with this situation. I heard God's still small voice say to my heart "Nothing can separate you from my love - nothing - not even a chipped tooth can separate you from my love". 

Thank God for His voice being heard at the right time and place. 

I scrambled around, calling friends for dentists they might know. 

NOBODY goes to the dentist around here! I called around and finally found a dentist near my house, I found his name from a flier I received in the mail. They were able to see me right away. Still scared, but feeling God's peace and remembering what God told me in my heart.

The next day, I saw my new dentist. He showed me my x-rays, only to show me my situation was worse than expected. He needed to drill out the filling and reconstruct the tooth, along with doing additional work. He showed me the x-rays to prove it. I had to trust him, after all I couldn't read the x-rays and I'm in God's hands. 

I'm panicking and the whole time, I hear a voice saying "trust me, I'm taking care of you". 

I'm more scared of the cost of the work than I am of the  pain itself.

The Dentist did his work and afterwards I sucked it up and paid up. Meanwhile trusting God to provide, because He said He would.

God provided. The pain is gone, my tooth reconstructed and I was paid a little extra when I went to work on Monday.

Romans 8:38-39 says: 
"I am convinced that nothing can separate us from God's love. Neither death, not life, neither angels or demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow - not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below - indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord." (NLT)

Nothing can separate us from God's love..... freezing rain, a sore throat, rejection of a friend, sudden death of a loved one, unexplained stomach pains, depression, worry, fatigue............ a broken tooth...... NOTHING can separate us from God's love. 

He's got us, whether we feel Him or not.

Will you let Him have you??